• To travel is to live. We travel not to escape life, but for life to not escape us. Dream, do, discover. The umpteen travel quotes or rather to travel quotes have been flooding my mailbox and making their way into my head since time immemorial. More recently flooded with Mommy-hormones, I took several journeys of a lifetime right from my living quarters! However what we say, what we do sometimes pale in comparison to what we go see, cause ten times to one the world is mightier than the home! And so when road trips beckoned to near-by locales of Coorg and Bandipur I was elated. Though not much a fan of road-trips (unless ofcourse we walk the entire way, ;)), I braved the journeys to see and experience some beautiful properties, monsoon greens that are greener than green and ofcourse some exotic wildlife. Here’s are two postcards that spell the sheer gorgeousness of monsoon in Karnataka.

    Coorg

    Karnataka with its red soil and ideal precipitation is home to a beautiful landscape of forests, greenery that comes alive especially in the monsoon. Kodagu, a district in the state is known for its spices, white pepper as such, brave men, beautiful women and a clime that brought to it the title, Scotland of India. The beauty of experiencing Coorg is amplified or rather largely hinged on the property that one stays in, its like almost a disclaimer. The local joints, sightseeing is nothing much, but if one lands up in a property that is itself a piece of art, then the charm is something else altogether. While family retreats are many, here’s one that is truly spectacular. Tamara, designed by Trivandram based Iyer and Mahesh architects uses wood in a warm and stylish way. The resort is spread over a vast number of acres boasting of terrific flora and fauna ideal for quiet walks and is a treat for nature lovers including a waterfall. The architects have cantilevered the main restaurant and bar over the waterfall, aptly calling it the fall all with glass flooring to look down at the gushing water. The finish is immaculate and the food lovely. A beautiful luxury resort to experience Coorg in all its natural glory!

    Bandipur

    Spotting a tiger has got to be the highlight of any trip if that happens, however, the Windflower in Bandipur is so natural and eco-friendly that it steals one’s heart with the heavily wooded central space. Extremely nimble-footed, the architecture is inward looking, luxurious in proportion and unassuming in its build. The tusker trails that the resort provides ensures activities like nature walk, wild safaris, mountain-biking, ayurvedic treatments and a host of others to supplement one’s experience of nature. The lovely Nilgiris and the Mudumalai National Park are in close proximity. Innumerable deer, pea-cocks, birds and the mighty tiger are some of the animals we were able to sight in the luxurious monsoon greens. The Windflower is located within the Bandipur National Park and allows animals to pass through the resort, so watching out and being aware is crucial and the feels exciting!

  • Well technically it was a branch that whacked my 5-month old baby on the head and another twig that tore through his arm but the magnitude that had on my life was nothing short of a meteor. For starters it woke me out of my slumber, broke the massive block in my head and got me back to life. Some of us are very protective of our children while others are very protective of our lives. While it is important to have our priorities right, most times it is simply right to trust our gut, cause as they say energy never lies. While my little fellow may have forgotten the incident, he does have a battle scar that he may question me about when he grows up! While it is largely unbecoming to question the counsel of an infant’s mother, it is more than just disrespectful to pay no heed to her repeated requests. That’s probably just how tiger moms are born and how the human race survives. Its not a survival of the fittest, rather the survival of the luckiest. 😃

  • It’s been almost half a year since my heart has been out and about beating in the chest of my little one. There is no sentence that sums the feeling of being a mother. Especially of an infant. I do hope in good time (read when the boy is married) I will be ready to finally let him go to a young lass, but till then he’s all mine! (and the husband’s ofcourse 😅)

    Pouring all my energy and attention on my little one I do have a few observations to make on motherhood. From a tiger mom to a chill mom, from a happy loaner to super protective I have oscillated many a scale to the pride of some and much to the chagrin of others. Definitely wiser here is a piece of my mind. 

    1. Your happiness is in your pocket. And you’d better keep it that way.

    2. Better safe than sorry. There is nothing called over-prepared.

    3. Respect is not negotiated. It is earned.

    4. You cannot please everybody. Including yourself all the time.

    5. There is such a thing as sticking your ground. And emerging victorious.

    6. Honesty is the best policy. Even if the truth kills you.

    7. Follow your intuition. Especially as a mother for your child.

  • Ten little fingers, ten little feet

    A smile from you is no mean feat

    However much you are a treat

    For with charm you aptly greet
    As you teach me to slowly lead

    In the offing is a steady steed

    For all your growing up needs

    And timing all your needy feeds
    As an epitome of love pure love

    There is the learning of true love

    Like the beauty of a pretty dove

    Such times fill treasure troves
    For in all the loving and giving

    We often find life’s beguiling 

    In the arms of a lil tiny being

    Who con’s all the foreseeing
    There is nothing to be foretold

    The future is not a thing sold

    Despite all the immense cold

    We are perfectly cut to the mold
    Dainty is as dainty surely does

    No matter all the crazy fuzz

    As daylight blurs into night time

    I jive to a sweet pleasant rhyme 
    May you finely grow and be

    A sturdy hundred and three

    Super happy and carefree 

    Splendidly climbing trees
    A month how soon youll be

    Not much to do but wait and see

    Your nimbleness and harmony

    And all the joy you bring to me! 

  • Mere Paas Maa hain!

    Well seriously! The romanised hindi literally translates to, I have Mom. (and that makes all the difference, thereby tilting the world in my favour) I am my Mom’s biggest fan, cause after all she brought up (with ample inputs from Dad) my most favourite person 😉 As I make great efforts to be the best version of myself, here’s a cheer to my coolest, smartest, funniest, boldest, wisest, happiest and hence prettiest Mom! Her superpower? She can find humour and laugh at anything brightening up the dullest of days.

    Mom you are lit

    always such a hit

    There’s no decree

    you cant set free

    Setting an example

    giving us a sample

    Of how to perceive

    give and receive

    To be in jest

    or else in rest

    The passions set

    in all earnestness

    For in celebration

    we forget to ration

    Thats a good way

    making us sway

    Living it up fully

    never once unruly

    In every chance

    taking on romance

    A reason to dance

    or simply to prance

    Teaching to read

    and planting the seed

    Editing the write

    making it right

    Critiquing the art

    setting the start

    Charging creativity

    with every activity

    Finding potential

    in diverse cadential

    Sprinkling a special

    in all essential

    Making sure I love

    every bit of now

    All questions met

    with answers set

    Making me believe

    in amore faati

    Life’s a breeze

    So joyful and free

    with my Mummy

    As busy as the bee

    as happy as the sea

    as strong as the knee

    as calm as the chi

    as wise as the duree

    as game as the oui

    as easy as the breeze

    as perfect at the brie

    For I strive to be

    what you are to me!

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    p.s these are my favourite photos in my favoritest of places, The Butchart Gardens. #happyplace #victoria #canada #happymothersday #everydayismothersday

  • Presenting to you all very happily a splendid Haiku (or so) in the 5-7-5 new-age format of my top 25 countries. This is again a no-picture post, coz am hoping the haiku poems will whip up a lovely feel for you. If you have happened to travel to the following countries then give me a vote out on what your favourite was at the end of the post. Love and best wishes as always!

    Switzerland

    In the land of edelweiss

    Bright springs and strings of snow white

    Sheer joy and swiss bliss!

    Germany

    Perfect time and fine precision

    Proud loud joy thats beats any deliberation

    Tantalising senses through its Black-Forest!

    France

    Of fine taste and fashion

    With Picasso, Eiffel and Napolean the Great

    Setting always a pretty Seine!

    Belgium

    Luscious chocolate and crispy fries,

    Chandeliers, glassware, fine dining and crystal glazing,

    Football fever, Snowy and mohawk-ed Tintin!

    Russia

    A mysterious air not forsaken

    With fiery starry eyes and steely ambitions

    Strong willed with untarnished gild!

    United States of America

    Laughter is sacred they say

    With sunshine, mirth and merry they sway

    A party in the USA!

    United Kingdom

    A language so wonderfully sublime,

    With royalty and a dash of lime,

    Stiff crisp upper lip no less!

    Italy

    La dolce vita they say,

    A good life isn’t too far away,

    David, pizza and pope array!

    Vatican City

    Swiss guards orange and blue,

    Chapels cast over with a million hues,

    Of Christianity and love amore!

    Spain

    Tomatoes paella pair the salsa,

    While Gaudi whips up a nasty Sagrada,

    And Columbus stirs up adventure!

    Portugal

    In wine they clearly trust,

    No matter how the masts may rust,

    For many a lighthouse entrust!

    Japan

    Zen and the artful refraining,

    Comes from many a decade of understanding,

    And hours of consistent winning!

    Kenya

    A lion here, lioness there

    Knee height grass that provides ample shade

    Bright red shawls and ware!

    Canada

    A sweet trickle of maple,

    And drizzle or so of white snow,

    Cheery faces and billowy throws!

    Bhutan

    By measuring the subjects’s happiness

    The king surmises a quality of living

    While meditating monks bring serenity!

    China

    Walling in or walling out

    There is beauty in every little brow

    Utterly matchless and certainly delightful!

    Singapore

    Glitzy, pricey like none other,

    Its innovative, youthful and cutting edge forever,

    An island of fun!

    India

    Brighter than the brightest rainbow,

    There’s a myth for every known struggle,

    Chirping birds and meditative silence!

    Egypt

    Crusty Cairo is a backdrop,

    For the pyramids, camels and human livestock,

    A wonder that is inexplicable!

    Sri Lanka

    Avocadoes by a large dozen,

    Luscious green thicklet of folk lore,

    A kingdom of Galle!

    Thailand

    Islands of endless emerald wonder,

    Big cities with quirky cabs hardly surrendered,

    The beauties of Chiang Mai!

    Nepal

    Spirituality is not in meditation,

    But in long walks and tiring treks,

    In the lofty Himalayan peaks!

    Cambodia

    A temple so very old,

    That holds the might of stories told,

    Poverty and ashen human genocide!

    Indonesia

    The mythology of epic Ramayana,

    An empire of Gado-Gado, and the gorengs,

    Reverance like never ever before!

    Malaysia

    Twin towers that perfectly balance,

    A nation hosting a myriad of wealth,

    Islands and cities of cheer!

  • Its a jolly day of soirees

    one of squeaky noises

    as with perfect choices

    and wonderful voices

     

    a day of firm reckoning

    adulthood past beckoning

    the future keenly forgiving

    all the known misgivings

     

    the loves very defining

    many a sublime lining

    knowing all the finding

    thats are chiefly beguiling

     

    life’s a bountiful platter

    of peals of endless chatter

    when the heart’s lighter

    with mirth only mightier

     

    for good feels, feels good

    much like knocking wood

    for all that we should

    there’s little or more could

     

    such joy in going by the flow

    there is no need of a show

    for in all the heres and knows

    there’s no joy like pure snow

     

    a chill here and a sun there

    putting to rest all the care

    the ups and down of fray

    with neat nets of snare

     

    for what is meant to be

    no matter what we see

    will come by with a key

    and bring down the knee

     

     

    throw caution to the wind

    with a couple or one friend

    with hugs and kisses send

    love to every near and far end

     

    there is so much happiness

    in laughter and prettiness

    twinkling of fluttering eyes

    forgetting all the weary sighs

     

    listening to a merry tune

    from morning to noon

    swinging all may to june

    and forgetting the soon

     

    slowness and calmness

    make one a highness

    for there is no less

    however much a mess

     

    the new chapter just begun

    full of frolic, a dash of fun

    and the shines of the sun

    at the twist of thirty one!

  • Oh my Bump! is my weekly chronicling of this little pie baking away, and a sharing of the ebbs and flows of being two at a time. Its a wonderful journey of rising and falling hormones, the beating of two hearts, and a huge sea of change to the body. It’s love and life all the way. 

     

     #storkarrives #with #the #bundleofjoy

    39 weeks! Well not really complete, but short of two days the little bean decided to pop. He chose a perfect Sunday and the mid-morning hours. Just like going to work he started business at 10 am and came out a little before lunch-time! Having declared ofcourse that he (or I) were ‘too posh to push’. How much ever I tried positive thinking, prenatal yoga to stir the odds in favour of a normal delivery, there were other plans. All for the best. So au natural may well not be the best option available in life, and that’s when we would rather thank technology. A statistically low complication, and some amount of pain later here I am with our bundle of joy, jotting in the last post of OMB! A parting wisecrack, one for the road, “There are things we cannot control, and thank God for that”. As I give up control on aspects of life, I have just finished reading, Sapiens by Yuval Noah Harari. The takeaway from that book – Buddha recommends that we follow a non-pursuit of achievements or of feelings, instead what we could pursue is to “know thyself”! While I bury myself in endless diapers and lullabies, thank you for following my blog. Its back to business for now 🙂

    Baby B: 38 Weeks and 5 days

    Baby’s size? 19.6 inches

    Girth: 40 inches

    Plus: 17 kilograms

    Maternity clothes? Yes and colorful ones now.

    Stretch marks? Nope.

    Sleep: Full of dreams and breaks.

    Best moment this week: Chilling and reading, putting my feet up and intermittent duck-squats!

    Movement: A poke here and a nudge there!

    Food Cravings: Aloo 65! Nice and spicy with all the scrumptuousness of Aloooo.

    Gender: Its a Boy!!

    Symptoms: Acne on the chin and on the forehead scarring away. Darn!

    Wedding Rings – on or off? On!

    Happy or Moody? Anxious! Calm! Exhilarated!

    Loving: Music and dancing. Can’t do much though.

    Reading: Born Free. But didn’t really read much.

    Watched: The sunset, for like a week.

    Compliments: From the doctor, on not looking pregnant at all. And yes, nice dress she said too.

    Acne: No new eruptions!!

    Drawing: Some pretty Sunflowers.

    Dreaming of: A bony baby girl with beautiful hair.

    Looking Forward To: Life with the royal babyness!!!

  • Oh my Bump! is my weekly chronicling of this little pie baking away, and a sharing of the ebbs and flows of being two at a time. Its a wonderful journey of rising and falling hormones, the beating of two hearts, and a huge sea of change to the body. It’s love and life all the way. 

     

     #thebrood #colors #vibrance

    38 weeks! To arrive at one thing to do in life is extremely difficult, especially if you are one with a myriad of interests. However then, one would believe that happiness or enjoyment could be the moral compass to guide one all the way through life. This week was an ode to feeling, to learn to do as one feels and to follow the heart as and how it leads in consultation with the brain of course. As you do, so you feel or rather as you feel, so you do! With two weeks to go for the full term I find myself very calm and relaxed. Its as if the transformation of all the nine months are finally coming to an end. It is a much needed transformation as one prepares to bring a new life, to steady oneself to understand the responsibilities and tumultuous changes that they may all bring. If there was one goal in life it would be that of loving oneself! The festival of Kites, Sankranthi saw a rather fun Kite festival with professional fliers hosting up an array of kites into the blue clear skies. What fun! With Mary Poppins on my mind I couldn’t help but play the tune ‘lets go fly a kite’ on repeat in my head!! There is so much to do in this world, so much to see and enjoy that a zest for life, true appreciation, creativity, usefulness and giving one’s own uniqueness an expression are only but a few ways of harnessing the power of living.

    Baby B: 38 Weeks

    Baby’s size? 19.6 inches

    Girth: 40 inches

    Plus: 17 kilograms

    Maternity clothes? New patterns, cuter options!

    Stretch marks? Nope.

    Sleep: Those very merry blissful hours!

    Best moment this week: Putting on make-up after a while! Dressy eyes look and feel so good 😀 and yes, all the laughing this week came with! What joy.

    Movement: A poke here and a nudge there!

    Food Cravings: Mysore Bajji! Ate a whole batch and felt the heart burn literally!!

    Gender: No idea!

    Symptoms: Acne on the chin and on the forehead making their way out.

    Wedding Rings – on or off? On!

    Happy or Moody? Calm! Happy! Calm!

    Loving: Music and dancing. Can’t do much though.

    Reading: The Art of Joyful Living, and hence all the motivational posts 😀

    Watched: The Post. What a fantastic movie!!

    Compliments: On looking like a doll!

    Acne: On a positive note, lets just say no new eruptions!!

    Drawing: On AutoCAD after what seems to be a while!

    Dreaming of: My Grandparents. Precisely trying to take a selfie with them!!

    Looking Forward To: The Baby the baby the baby!!

  • Oh my Bump! is my weekly chronicling of this little pie baking away, and a sharing of the ebbs and flows of being two at a time. Its a wonderful journey of rising and falling hormones, the beating of two hearts, and a huge sea of change to the body. It’s love and life all the way. 

    #lilmicomesvisiting

    37 weeks! Life is for the living. So after months of reflection, the ruling is that one could possibly live in alignment and is the greatest gift of all. And as one marches to one’s own beat whatever it may be, it’s such a pleasure to live and be. Be your own they say and truly that is the best life ever. #marchtoyourownbeat #danceto yourrhythm

    Baby B: 37 Weeks

    Baby’s size? 19.1 inches

    Girth: 40 inches

    Plus: 16 kilograms (a reduction!)

    Maternity clothes? Missing the crop tops and shortie shorts now!

    Stretch marks? Nope.

    Sleep: Those very merry blissful hours!

    Best moment this week: Rendered a piece of my mind to a really dumb and wannabe person. Standing up felt so good!

    Movement: Warm embraces! And some tugs. Especially felt when I cook.

    Food Cravings: Cinnamon sugar french toast.

    Gender: No idea!

    Symptoms: Acne on the chin and on the forehead. Totally unwanted!

    Wedding Rings – on or off? On!

    Happy or Moody? A sense of foreboding, knowing that something is coming!

    Loving: Music and dancing. Can’t do much though.

    Reading: Quotations!

    Watched: The Marvelous Mrs Maisel.

    Compliments: On yummyness of the food I made.

    Acne: A blasphemous new one on my forehead.

    Drawing: Some ideas for the ‘building for a billion’ competition.

    Dreaming of: Nothing this week. Or rather nothing that I remember.

    Looking Forward To: Hitting the books again after a break! Finalizing on a centre. Finally!

  • Oh my Bump! is my weekly chronicling of this little pie baking away, and a sharing of the ebbs and flows of being two at a time. Its a wonderful journey of rising and falling hormones, the beating of two hearts, and a huge sea of change to the body. It’s love and life all the way. 

    #happyhappy

    36 weeks! The time to pop begins now and lasts for the whole month. The final weeks of pregnancy is almost like a flashback and I can’t help but reflect on all  the whole nine months. It is but a spiritual journey to have a baby, to be a Mom! However I have learnt several lessons over the last couple of months, some bitter truths and other sweetest facts. The quotes that stuck with me are one, that if you have good thoughts they shine like sunbeams through your face and you will always look lovely and two, enthusiasm is the electricity of life! Armed with good thoughts and enthusiasm, life is but sheer joy. Such moments of relaxation and reflection further make one’s interests in life rather clear. There is nothing like sheer objectivity to know your mind, and there is no greater power than the knowledge of one’s mind! Apart from architectural work, I’d like to travel to one new country every year, be active every single day, fill my head with good thoughts that shine through my face and arm myself with electrifying enthusiasm on the majority of moments. While I now brace in body and mind for one of the greatest miracles of life, am suddenly feeling very wise. The strong let go and accept life, control is the respite of the weak. So while I digest all the revelations that relaxation have brought to me, there is one other scientific fact that I’d like to share. It has been studied that a relaxed person cannot experience pain. How wonderful then. Instead of resisting lets relax into life, at its every stage brimming with good thoughts and electrifying enthusiasm! Godspeed to all of us.

    Baby B: 36 Weeks

    Baby’s size? 18.7 inches

    Girth: 42 inches

    Plus: 17 kilograms (ouch!!)

    Maternity clothes? The long dresses, stretch leggings combined with long hoodies – for winter is here!

    Stretch marks? Nope.

    Sleep: A day well spent with ample exercise equals to great sleep. Period.

    Best moment this week: New Year’s and some glorious music!

    Movement: Warm embraces! Now’s when I feel the hugs from inside. Warm and cuddly!!

    Food Cravings: Cheese!!

    Gender: No idea!

    Symptoms: Acne on the chin. Darn it. Just when I thought they were gone for good =( Uff!

    Wedding Rings – on or off? On!

    Happy or Moody? Happy! Fearful! It’s a roller-coaster ride.

    Loving: Sleeping.

    Reading: Quotations!

    Watched: Reign. Yet I am addicted.

    Compliments: On retaining my face structure!

    Acne: A blasphemous new one on my forehead.

    Drawing: Lilies and Zerberas!

    Dreaming of: Nothing this week. Or rather nothing that I remember.

    Looking Forward To: 2018! And all the cheer it’s going to bring.

  • Oh my Bump! is my weekly chronicling of this little pie baking away, and a sharing of the ebbs and flows of being two at a time. Its a wonderful journey of rising and falling hormones, the beating of two hearts, and a huge sea of change to the body. It’s love and life all the way. 

    #merrymerry

    35 weeks! Now showing quite apparently I do get those sympathetic looks and polite questions from passer-bys and random acquaintences. With the baby expanding and taking up all space, the internal organs seem to be rather cramped with no space to even keep food down. Such are the intricacies of concocting a while new human being! While a much elaborated conflict resolves in my head this week, I have gotten utter clarity in my being. It’s the season of cheer and more so the season for some reason and introspection. Looking inwards and hence onwards is all the ammunition we need in life. Life as we know it is much too wise and can conveniently sort itself out rather abundantly. And that is itself a reason to be jolly!

    Baby B: 35 Weeks

    Baby’s size? 18.2 inches

    Girth: 42 inches

    Plus: 15.4 kilograms

    Maternity clothes? Yoga pants and oversized shirts are so much more fun now. Its time to strettcccchhh!

    Stretch marks? Nope.

    Sleep: Very very elusive.

    Best moment this week: Santa Claus and Christmas ofcourse!

    Movement: A flip here and a nudge there mostly.

    Food Cravings: Plain wholewheat bread. Soft and tender. Still on it.

    Gender: No idea!

    Symptoms: Acne on the chin. Darn it. Just when I thought they were gone for good =( Uff!

    Wedding Rings – on or off? On!

    Happy or Moody? Happy! Fearful! It’s a roller-coaster ride.

    Loving: Sleeping.

    Reading: The Conscious Parent by Shefali Tsabary.

    Watched: Reign. Yet I am addicted.

    Compliments: On retaining my face structure! 

    Acne: Dormant and threatening. 

    Drawing: Pulling out the canvas today and banishing the laziness for good.

    Dreaming of: Nothing this week. Or rather nothing that I remember.

    Looking Forward To: 2018! And all the cheer it’s going to bring.