• Oh my Bump! is my weekly chronicling of this little pie baking away, and a sharing of the ebbs and flows of being two at a time. Its a wonderful journey of rising and falling hormones, the beating of two hearts, and a huge sea of change to the body. It’s love and life all the way. 
    #whatawonderfulread
    25 weeks! The relatively peaceful week had me gorge on a couple of wonderful books and gave me much clarity on life as it is. The feeling of being a Mom is sinking in as the pie has began to seem more real than ever. All the free time and all the wonderfulness is just the calm on the surface I sense as a ton of changes are brewing on the insides. The gloriousness of Pranayam is a new learning for this week. Luncheon with friends was a great highlight of this week, simple pleasures!

    Baby B: 25 Weeks

    Baby’s size? 13.6 inches

    Girth: 38.5 inches (woah!)

    Plus: 9.0 kilograms

    Maternity clothes? Still scouting for swimwear!

    Stretch marks? Nope.

    Sleep: Pretty great considering all the swimming I have been doing and all the reading, weaning off technology before bedtime is a great plus too!

    Best moment this week: So the lil pie kicks me to wake up early mornings. Like 6 AM! early bird on the cards I say!

    Movement: On time every morning! What a punctual child!!

    Food Cravings: None!

    Gender: No idea!

    Symptoms: Gorgeous skin tales continue. (yay!)

    Wedding Rings – on or off? On!

    Happy or Moody? Happy! Sad! Teary!

    Loving: Ola Shekhtman’s city skyline rings. Absolutely loved the St. Petersburg ones.

    Reading: Oh mind Relax please! by Swami Sukhabodananda, Amazing Secrets of the Bhagavad Gita by Ed Viswanath, Hanuman Chalisa by Devdutt Pattanaik and now starting on War and Peace!

    Watched: A bunch of talks by Sadhguru. Witty and precise. Not much of a fan though..

    Compliments: On my pretty pretty eyes and gorgeous hair (!)

    Acne: Receding scars. Best thing ever.

    Drawing: Did a wonderful sketch of outer space.

    Dreaming of:  Climbing up to Macchu Pichhu.

    Looking Forward To: Diwali!!! (patakas, sweets, friends, family)

  • Oh my Bump! is my weekly chronicling of this little pie baking away, and a sharing of the ebbs and flows of being two at a time. Its a wonderful journey of rising and falling hormones, the beating of two hearts, and a huge sea of change to the body. It’s love and life all the way. 

     

    The chandelier earrings! #jewelry #athingofbeautyisjoyforever

    25 weeks! Swear this one flew by. Literally in traffic jams!! Being pregnant and stuck in a traffic jam may well be the worst thing ever considering the cramped positioning one has to endure for a large amount of time. Took me 3 whole days to get over the tiredness jostled up by a 3-hour traffic jam. I sure do hope Baby B comes out with a set of wings 😀 This week I caught up on reading, finished the book Grow by Jim Stengel – which I totally loved. Its a non-fiction read where Stengel mostly writes about business ideals and gives us a dekho into some of the world’s greatest and most loved companies. My takeway from that book was mainly this one point – have an artist as the leader of the company, a CEO, CFO or the one who literally drives the company. Creative folks apparently have an edge with a completely different view, the per se out-of-the-box thinking. However, they must be backed up by the do-ers, ones who are pragmatic and have their feet firmly in the ground. A wonderful read. He also talks about the 5 basic ideals or fundamental values of which most companies follow atleast one. The values being those of eliciting joy, enabling connection, inspiring exploration, evoking pride and impacting society. Pick one and start now he says, start big or start small, but start now.

    Baby B: 24 Weeks

    Baby’s size? 11.8 inches

    Girth: 38.5 inches (woah!)

    Plus: 8.6 kilograms

    Maternity clothes? Yes. Now scouting for swim wear. 😀

    Stretch marks? Nope.

    Sleep: A little ditchy! The weather Gods are being super kind and the glorious weather makes me want to curl up in bed and watch back to back episodes of ‘This is Us’. What a wonderful show.

    Best moment this week: The big chandelier earrings. Oh how I love ’em!

    Movement: Gone all quite! The party seems to have packed up!

    Food Cravings: None!

    Gender: No idea!

    Symptoms: Gorgeous skin tales continue.

    Wedding Rings – on or off? On!

    Happy or Moody? Happy! Happy! Happy!

    Loving: Swimming!! Absolute sheer JOY!

    Reading: Grow by Jim Stengel.

    Watched: This is Us. Still watching. Half a season down, One and a half to go. Loving it.

    Compliments: On how the chandelier earrings suit my face so very well. A thing of beauty is literally joy forever. Loved the earrings.

    Acne: Need to clear the scars now!

    Drawing: Back to the suns. Not yet satisfied though.

    Dreaming of: Stirring up a storm.

    Looking Forward To: My visit to the Library this evening and picking up half a doz of different books for this week.

  • Oh my Bump! is my weekly chronicling of this little pie baking away, and a sharing of the ebbs and flows of being two at a time. Its a wonderful journey of rising and falling hormones, the beating of two hearts, and a huge sea of change to the body. It’s love and life all the way. 

     

    wp-image-1310037608.jpgThose 5 secs of fame! #featured #happinessflamboyanceenergy

     
    23 weeks! This week had a super busy feel to it with rounds of shopping, the yearly Dussehra festival, the holiday festivities and a ton of things. Finally I have made my peace with maternity clothes, of which I like my swimsuit the best :D, and have learnt to flaunt the curves and the light-bulb of a skin. I may have just found the purpose of my life. Finally. Thanks to the Dalai Lama and Vish who fished out an old slam book, thus providing much alacrity. This week therefore is huge. 😀 Plus sleep turned out to be extra awesome and thus the morale. Three scientists just won the nobel prize for studying the link between our circadian rhythms and health thus putting across path-breaking research on how the earth’s rotation vibes with our internal body-clock. Just the old tales on being in sync with the sun! At the derby last afternoon I chanced upon these lines of poetry, “lets learn from the almond leaf that flames as it falls. flamboyance is everything”. Those lines resonated with me. Flamboyance is indeed everything. Move over simplicity, am certainly so done with you! 😀

    Baby B: 23 Weeks

    Baby’s size? 11.4 inches

    Girth: 38 inches (woah!)

    Plus: 8 kilograms

    Maternity clothes? Yes. Going designer with different cuts and colors. Digging on yellow like never before.

    Stretch marks? Nope.

    Sleep: Supremely awesome. Waking up fresh as a daisy and ready to hit the road every day!

    Best moment this week: Rocking the page3! Those 5 minutes of fame!!

    Movement: A little push here and a little nudge there! Not too much. Not like the last week at all.

    Food Cravings: None!

    Gender: No idea!

    Symptoms: Glowing skin. The oh-so-awesome glow from the first trimester is back!!

    Wedding Rings – on or off? On!

    Happy or Moody? Happy! Happy! Happy!

    Loving: Swimming!! The bluest blue waters and bubbling under the pool. Had the most awesome experience doing my laps in the pool. The happiest place on the planet is in water for me. Sheer joyfulness!!

    Reading: Young Turks! About 13 young entrepreneurs and their take on their journey and life. Fun read. Easy Breezy.

    Watched: The telugu flick Spyder. (walked out in 40 min) My o My…Super violent.

    Compliments: On my broad shoulders

    Acne: The terrible acne is clearing off and leaving a sunshine glow all over my face. Nicknamed sunshine is absolutely so apt. (since ever)

    Drawing: Toffees. For some reason remembering the melody ones we would gorge on as kids.

    Dreaming of: Beaches and sunshine!

    Looking Forward To: Painting the sun set. Finally!

  • Oh my Bump! is my weekly chronicling of this little pie baking away, and a sharing of the ebbs and flows of being two at a time. Its a wonderful journey of rising and falling hormones, the beating of two hearts, and a huge sea of change to the body. It love and life all the way. 

    22 weeks! That’s two weeks over the halfway mark, and now am finally beginning to show(!), look and feel pregnant. Phew! The clothes don’t fit anymore and the little bum is now over 11″. This week I went over a complete wardrobe overhaul, buying a whole new set of clothes, styles which I would never otherwise wear (read long maxi dresses) feeling like a completely new person. The only craving that has been making the rounds is that of walking. Yes! Instead of food I’ve been craving activity! Exercise, meeting people and fresh air. No more air-conditioning and lots of yoga! Besides the baby in my bump has been moving so so much that I almost feel like there is tournament game going on in there!

    Baby B: 22 Weeks

    Baby’s size? 11 inches

    Maternity clothes? Yes. Loving the long flowy dresses that practically hide everything.

    Stretch marks? Nope.

    Sleep: A tad bit better considering the (almost) electronic ban imposed in the night! No more late night reading of articles off the blue light emitting screens. A bad bad cold though!

    Best moment this week: Red Cheddar Cheese! Tastes absolutely divine. And yes the 10000 step walk mark!

    Movement: YES! YES! YES!

    Food Cravings: No cravings, none at all! Except for exercise 😀

    Gender: No idea!

    Symptoms: Dull aches and pains combined with a ton a gas which all go away when I walk around or stretch!

    Wedding Rings – on or off? On!

    Happy or Moody? Oh so moody!

    Loving: Exercise! Being out of the house! Meeting people!

    Reading: My Brilliant friend by Elena Ferrante (cannot believe how long this is taking to read!)

    Compliments: A clothing designer went gaga over my height! Umm thanks Dad! And all the swimming!

    Acne: Terrible terrible ones on the chin. Tried turmeric, salicylic acid facewash, steam breathing, nothing seems to work.

    Drawing: Sun, Sun, Sun! Still not very happy with what to do for the commissioned art piece.

    Dreaming of: Being an athlete! Ran my first marathon successfully in my sleep. Haha!

    Looking Forward To: Dussehra!

  • Oh my Bump! is my weekly chronicling of this little pie baking away, and a sharing of the ebbs and flows of being two at a time. Its a wonderful journey of rising and falling hormones, the beating of two hearts, and a huge sea of change to the body. It love and life all the way. 

    21 weeks! The little one is bumping along, much like me, staying up late night, nothing like me, and winding a wee bit up and down. This week I did my first pre-natal yoga class. Which was awesome!! Sumo squats and what not. The meditation time only amplifies all the activity happening in the tummy. Lunch with the ever effervescent Unnati  Pingle was both exciting and fun. Laughed so much at this thing called life, and got a preview of the latest offing from her Design Studio. Lunch at Sage, an organic restaurant was all things healthy and extremely delicious. Must visit if in Hyderabad. A limited spread of pizza, ragi flour chocolate cake and the likes, and much to my delight extremely healthy. Well if one could do gongura in a salad with tamarind dressing, making it taste delicious then nothing else needs to be said.

    Baby B: 21 Weeks

    Baby’s size? Carrot (10.5 inches)

    Maternity clothes? Yes. A whole new wardrobe!

    Stretch marks? Nope.

    Sleep: Sleep has been super duper restless, considering the game tournaments in the bump! Need to blow the whistle at times and say game over! 😀

    Best moment this week: The cues to which the baby responds in addition to all the bumping around. The tumbling in the tummy. Butterflies in the stomach. Seriously.

    Movement: YES! YES! YES!

    Food Cravings: No cravings, none at all! Except for dancing 😀

    Gender: No idea!

    Symptoms: Dull aches and pains which go away when I walk around or stretch!

    Wedding Rings – on or off? On!

    Happy or Moody? Oh so moody!

    Loving: Exercise! Being out of the house! Meeting people!

    Reading: My Brilliant friend by Elena Ferrante

    Compliments: The oh so glowing skin!

    Acne: On the chin. Sigh!!

    Drawing: Sun, Sun, Sun!

    Looking Forward To: Wedding shopping, new styles of clothes.

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    For the last month or so I have been glued to a number of religious books. The Bhagavad Gita mostly, and a couple of other religious manuscripts including the Ramayana, the Sai Charitranama and others. The Gita ofcourse is a part of the Mahabharatha one of the two Indian epics. Having read the versions for kids, this time around the reading was on a much deeper level of study. When we quizzed an architect on what would he would recommend reading to be a great architect, he said the Bhagavad Gita. He could not have been more right. The Bhagavad Gita presents solutions to the most complicated aspects of life in a sentence or two but mostly it continuously reinstates one single notion –कर्म कर फल की चिंता मत कर, translated from Hindi as, work with absolutely no attachment to the result. Apart a few more gems of wisdom here are a few that stayed with me much after reading the original translated from Sanskrit.

    (in order of appearance in the Gita)

    1. Those who are wise lament neither for the living nor the dead. Lament I believe as per the Gita, in any form is an absolute waste of time!
    2. Equanimity of the mind is a sign of self-realisation. A person is said to be equanimous when he regards all – the honest well-wisher, friends and enemies all with an equal mind.
    3. And finally as for actions – that action which is performed indifferent to success or failure, is called action in the mode of goodness.

    As a part of a larger picture, we are on this planet for a rather insignificant measure of time. And while we use this time to make hay, stay happy or reach the moon, it’s our lifetime that matters the most to us. And no, God is apparently not judging, does not need incessant praise or a matter of great fear. Good is God, and earnestly working with effort is what the Gita prescribes.

  • While we wish upon security

    we run amok at every opportunity

    To praise the Lord Almighty

    and join the fraternity

    Depending on spirituality

    more than sheer sensibility

    A Godman or simply a few

    is all we need for faith to renew

    Trusting in dogmatic traditions

    and calling them revelations

    Just cause a thing was done so

    it makes it not right moreso

    There is God for sure

    to that belief there is no cure

    And a part of that divine is you

    with or without a befitting clue

    Gathering for a worthy cause is religion

    not one of blind fanatism or destruction

    For a crowd is an exaggeration

    of emotions mostly an allegation

    The constant lure of atheism

    is supplemented by non-adheism

    Applying the mind comes easy

    for all the mighty and breezy

    But to not be able to control

    drives one off the divine roll

    There is none that holds

    who is not within the fold

    To truly belong to oneself

    and be our own little elves

    Is all that we would need

    lest we let ourselves bleed

    Good is God the Buddhists say

    kindness is my religion the Lama says

    For there is no God without forgiveness

    and no almighty without gracefulness

    In word, kind or deed

    there is a warm appeal

    To be of great utility

    for all the fraternity

    There is God in each one

    in idols and sometimes none

    For it is the belief

    that mostly gives grief

    Perception is reality

    and life a fragility

    As we bind premonitions

    to make lengthy altercations

    We discover the legions

    of all the many regions

    The two faces of the coin

    is the oddness of religion!

    =D

  • The Gardens by the Bay!

     

    At an interview this afternoon I was asked what my favourite building in Singapore was. And without thinking too much pat came my reply, from the subconcious, the Gardens by the Bay. Specifically if you ask for a building then I’d say the Glass conservatories at the Gardens by the bay I reiterated. What impressed you so much? the interviewer pressed on, and though I gave him a quick explanation on it’s ingenuity in design, the closed loop of sustainable measures it employs, at the same time holding forth the notion of beauty with lighting framed rhythmic glass panels arching over one’s head, I’d like to give a little or more of my web space to this scenic wonder, that hardly does clarify it’s need but adds a sense of delight and wonder to every heart that visits. It doesn’t scale the skies, instead it wraps it over a leafy adventure. This WAF Building of the Year winning project surely does deserve a visit or two!

    Designed by the London based team of Wilkinson Eyre Architects, the climate-controlled cooled conservatories are the architectural centrepieces of the 54-Hectare south gardens planned by Grant Associates. The curvilinear glasshouse structures enclose two very different kinds of biomes, one that mimics the equatorial gardens and the other that displays rare specie from the Mediterranean latitudes of the planet also called the Flower Dome. Both extremely different from what Singapore experiences in terms of biodiversity and climate. The beauty of the conservatories lies not only in it’s design in terms of form, a pattern of clear glass exposing bright blue or cloudy skies, offering a view of the spectacular Marina Bay skyline and the sea at large but also transporting one into a completely different world. May it be twisted evil looking olive trees or the water bearing Baobabs. From Mediterranean to Californian, from Australian to South American it has them all, with a seasonal flower bloom right in the centre. The pathways to these different gardens see a gradation of levels to finally reach a vantage point from when the entire garden is spread below. The Equatorial dome on the other hand is not for the faint-hearted. It is hardly gentle or gradual in approach. Stunning the average visitor with a massive waterfall, the path takes on a quick approach to the summit of the cliff and then commences a descent through an array of suspended bridges. The flora is truly delightful as much as it is educative. Words cannot quite describe the effect the conservatories have.

    The Gardens by the bay are also home to a variety of other gardens boasting of the island country’s produce and the magnificent super trees that add an element of sheer gorgeousness as they rise up into the sky. Walking across the trees on tensile bridges offers a birds-eye view into the open-air gardens. On an educational tour while at the National University of Singapore we were given a detailed tour of the facility, studying the large project on various levels. Largely self-supportive, the entire project utilises the resources on site to cater to it’s energy requirements. The function of which are explained in the Garden’s visitor centre to great detail and alacrity. The centre also documents and plays a very engaging film about the rising temperatures of the planet, showing crisply what the world may see in the time to come. For the average nature-lover, the Gardens by the Bay are an absolute paradise, but for even the technologically unchallenged Joe, they are quite a find!

  • One way to architect happiness is to cook a dish so delightful, so utterly simple and so beautiful that it not only dazzles the tastebuds but also nourishes. Just like an unforgettable travel story this dish is mostly a personal concoction derived from a taste remembered. Long beach seafood, sometimes we are awed by the unlikeliest of places, does a take on this, it may not be on the menu but they’ll get it. Otherwise chef or not this is one strong recommendation to try your hand at.

    In a gist, blanch the broccoli florets in extremely super bubbly boiling salt infused water. That is once the water is boiling hot, add the broccoli florets and turn off the heat. Cover the pan with a lid and let the broccoli blanch for about 8 minutes. Once done, drain the water. In a saucepan shallow fry the minced garlic with a tinge of salt for a couple of minutes and add the blanched florets before garlic turns brown. Stir-fry the broccoli with garlic for just a couple of minutes. Avoid overcooking!

    Finally grate smoked cheese onto the cooked florets and turn off the heat allowing the cheese to melt slightly.

    Voila!

    Ingredients

    Broccoli florets – one broccoli cut up into florets

    Minced garlic (quantity subject your love for the spice)

    Water – enough to immerse all the florets

    Salt – as per taste, a little at every turn

    Smoked cheese (quantity subject to your love for cheese)

    p.s. though very many cringe at the sight of this green vegetable, do set the perceptions aside and try this one marvellous dish of broccoli and garlic, one that competes with age old combinations like bread and butter or blue jeans and a white shirt!

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    A delightful British movie, the story is as delicious as the accent. As Gleeson and Mc Adams live out a sweet romantic story, the wonderfully aspirational idea of time travel is explored. Am sure we have all at a given point of time wished we could go back in time and do one small thing differently, but then changing that one not-so-desirable thing would also change a whole lot of desirable things we have at present that we heart. The Alucobonds building facades come with the cure for cancer! While we absolutely despise some bold and gimmicky application of alucobond we sigh in relief to see our brethren get better with chemo. So in the platter we have there are the good and the bad, the desirable and the undesirable, and cherishing the two may be the best shot we have in life. Gratitude is the attitude. Just as I was turned down from participating in a yoga class on the pretext of irregularity, I can’t help but feel grateful for all that I have this moment. Just as a dear grandmother advised me a few years ago, to welcome the two imposters called happiness and sadness in the same vein. If there is one thing that becomes increasingly clear through the visual motion picture, its how one wouldn’t change a thing for the fear of losing out some indelible present. Sometimes we wouldn’t have our present any other way, than it is. And the sooner one realizes it, the more beautiful life is. For me for one, its about time!

    p.s some questions are never answered and we can only but carry them to our graves, but till then it’s about time!

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  • Nile-hopping and some wise-ness!

    The River Nile flows from South to North, from Sudan to Egypt with great tranquility and peace that it would be very hard to ever imagine it’s flooding! However with the changes of time, and perhaps geography, we know for sure that the landmasses in terms of continents are constantly shifting even if extremely slowly. The 7000 km long river touches upon it’s course several monumental wonders of Ancient Egypt. Monuments that were built very many years ago by empires who were highly advanced and mostly worshiped the Sun-God Amun Ra and his various other entourage Gods. The Goddess Isis, the God Horus, the crocodile God Kom Ombo, make for several important figures whose praises and stories are captured in hieroglyphics across monuments in Egypt. Building mostly with sandstone with dashes of marble, the temples pay an ode to different Gods. How they were built may be a tad clearly that the Pyramids, considering the proximity of the river and the advancement of time, the discovery of various instruments, but their sheer size and measure are truly captivating and magnificent. The powdery blue skies serve a perfect canvas to the golden sandstone structures while the river is a perfect medium to observe the very many temples dotting the bank.

    Checking into Solaris-II a magnified house-boat is one way to embark on the Nile Cruise. What immediately strikes is the quietness of the river, in absolute ease the river that is much too shallow in parts flows effortlessly in a contrary direction and empties itself in the Mediterranean sea. While several dams have been built across the river, to mostly harness its energy, serving to light up several smaller towns in Egypt, the Aswan Dam is the most popular, besides being an engineering marvel. The Dam filters out crocodiles that are rampant in the Nile causing the last stretch of the water-body flowing from Aswan to Alexandria extremely tidy, filtering out the man-eating water-creature and allowing for an extremely delightful and tourist friendly experience, across Egypt. The cruise-boats that follow the course are akin to houseboats, that can ply the relatively shallow river. Equipped with restaurants, lounges, sometimes a shallow wading pool and a well stocked rooms the boats are luxurious, comfortable or bare, suiting a range of budgets and requirements. The best way to experience the Nile though is on a felucca! Also fondly referred to as the whispers of the wind. Capturing the wind the feluccas are sailboats, harnessing power to skim delicately across the water. The picturesque scenery across the riverbanks are dotted by two major towns, Luxor and Aswan and innumerable smaller places host to brilliant monuments. The Lake Nasser created when the river’s course was changed in the 1960’s to save the monuments of Abu Simbel from sinking forever is touted as a brilliant exercise carried out by UNESCO to save cultural heritage. The 3 lakh off stones were cut and reassembled on a hill at a height of over 136 feet. Abu Simbel is one of the most exciting and ingenious archaeological exercise carried out to save the rocks from oblivion. However, I was left wondering what if, Abu Simbel could have been kept underwater and visited by people underwater through scuba-diving attire! That would have been quite an experience. Just as I thought otherwise of the mammoth effort of UNESCO, several people over time have critically looked at the building of the Aswan Dam and the act of changing the course of the Nile. They claim that it has badly affected climate, geography and taken a toll on the financial balance-sheets of the country!

     

    While sailing from the city of Luxor to Aswan, the first stop along the way are the temples of Karnak and Luxor. Luxor was once called Thebes, but over time it’s name changed to Luxor, meaning the palace of the king. It probably got it’s name from the architecture extravaganzas in the area. The Karnak temple was built for the Sun-God while the Luxor temple was built for his queen, both the temples are accessible through a pathway guarded by half lion and half man sculptures all across the way. The half-man, half-lion mythical creature, also called the Sphinx, is symbolic of the most popular creature, one that has the head of a man and the body of a lion, making it extremely powerful. The Hypostyle hall marked by giant columns is my personal favorite of the temples. Seen both in Karnak and Luxor, it is much bigger in the Karnak temple than in Luxor. Before entering the hall, one can view sculptures of the young and insanely popular Egyptian King Tutakhamun whose tomb was discovered by Howard Carter, filled with precious materials and the 11 kg golden mask. Though he died at a very young age of 19, he is vastly remembered for his highly glorious tomb and princely belongings. The Hypostyle hall is filled with huge stone columns that must have once been support to the roof. The proportions are gigantic and the columns are filled with hieroglyphics all along. Obelisks carved out of a single granite piece make for interesting symbols made to tell a story and string along everything that the emperor would like to convey. Efforts of France, working in tandem with Egypt are visible in the Karnak temple. The temple is also home to a scarab, one of the ancient Egyptian’s symbols of good luck. Circling the scarab over 7 times we were very happy to know that some good luck may well have rubbed off onto us!
    The Valley of Kings, across the river is a series of tombs that the kings built of themselves under hills, barren and brazen. The conservation efforts at the Valley of Kings is stupendous and still underway. The walls of the tombs are filled with plastered hieroglyphics completed in pastel and pretty shades of color. Today the tombs are easily accessible, through narrow passages that terminate into chambers where once the mummified bodies were stored with other articles like food or precious metal. The ancient Egyptians believed in the requirement of the bodies in future lives and preserved them carefully, while also handing to it food, money and other things they believed would give them a head-start in the life to come! Little did they know that all their efforts would be in vain. The human body does not rise again. I cannot help but reflect on how a couple of centuries later our proteges will wake to establish that the soul too does not rise again, as we Hindus believe, but our chapters end in totality with our last breath! There is no last life, or karma, or reincarnation of the soul. And when they do, they may just marvel at our stupidity as we may do of the ancient Egyptians! Built to serve mainly as tombs or temples, most monumental architecture, except for the Eiffel Tower(;)) is meant for religious or death, two greatest fears of man. Monumental architecture seems to be nothing but man’s ode to his greatest fears, or lets just say with fear as a driving factor, man has built the most stunning and magnificent edifices! To witness and experience though, the Valley of Kings is awesome just as is the temple of Hatshepsut. Hatshepsut was a Egyptian queen, rather ill-behaved (well well-behaved women hardly make history), dressed as a man and ruled Egypt by hook or crook. The temple of Hatshepsut against a giant rock was a beautiful piece of architecture and for some inexplicable reason my most favorite memory of the entire trip. The light was marvelous, the proportion was marvelous, the building in tandem was marvelous, the restoration was marvelous, infact every single aspect of the temple of Hatshepsut was marvelous. It is built in white alabaster stone, a type of marble and it reflects sunlight, the high cliff with equal elan, is robust and brilliant at every level. A gem of a piece of architecture that is now being restored by a Polish team. The quarters built for the team at a safe distance from the monument is so cozy and wonderful too. A case of a thing of a thing of beauty being a joy forever. It was indeed my happy place!

    Other temples along the journey are the Horus temple in Edfu, the Kon Ombo temple, but after the point all the other temples start to resemble each other. The proportions are so different from what we witness today, so sturdy and robust they have stood the test of time and bring out a completely different perspective to the way we see buildings. While the world is filled with gorgeous architecture, soothing naturescape and brilliant engineering marvels, egyptian structures, that lack finesse draw out a rare brilliance and are probably the only structures in the world that live up to the title of wonders or monuments. Mostly because they were built at a time when the world was not completely evolved with tools and equipment, and we have no clue as to how they built them all. The pyramids are much older than the buildings along the Nile, which display Greek influence. The greeks also plundered the monuments and broke parts of them over time. The rather peaceful Nile, the sandstone stories are all a part of a glittering history that is missing from the country today. Modern Egyptians grapple with many issues of a falling economy, revolution, strife and worry. The cruise ships that carry wide-eyed travelers are also badgered by hawkers who try to sell shawls, towels with souveniers, throwing them in plastic bags to the top decks and asking for tourists to part with some money, throwing the money back in the plastic bags! Its unbelievable when the plastic bags miss their mark and fall in water, only to be rescued by the hawker. The dire need, the lack of employment or sheer laziness are certainly causes of concern in a country so fraught by violence, trouble and pain. It’s history is awe-inspiring, and as a learning may only display the futile attempts of man to hold on to life. If history had to teach us anything, it would be to enjoy the moment, living in it with gusto, for we cannot defy nature, the call of time, the effects of aging, the idea would be to ensure that the present, the ultimate gift that we all have is to be lived taking in every moment, for the moment is all we have. Any amount of preservation did not allow the pharoahs or emperors to hold on to their bodies, the mummified bodies rotted anyway, the only things that remained untarnished were precious metals which sparked robbery, thievery and usurping of goods. While each body looks different filled with muscle and mass, once dead all the mummies rot to similar sizes. We may well know that there is no after-life, no way to hold on to the physicality of the body or life which will all change in due time. There may be Gods, but still do not know for sure. There may be none. We may be today as deluded as the ancient egyptians in believing in souls and the like. Life that flows through us is all we know there is, and once the battery runs out, we die. Something that calls for no fear or tribute. Having lived once and well is good enough. Even as history teaches us maybe we must pour our efforts into building monuments that not only mark God or death, temples or tombs, perhaps what we need are stadiums and theaters, giant-wheels and lively streets, fun spaces and cozy homes, libraries and art galleries that spark the life in us, that celebrate with gaiety life, completely unfringed by fear, so very well. The attitude of infectious enthusiasm signals a life well-lived, deeply felt and fraught with fun and laughter. What I learned from this open history chapter was how inconsequential we all are in the greater history, what we could only aspire to be is the best version of ourselves and focus on enjoying our lives, in leisure and pleasure, working hard and smart, fulfilling ourselves in the bargain. Life is meant to be lived, not stored in jars or mummified, and it’s important to know when it’s over, it’s over and let it go!!
    P.s. Like they say, man and God met and they both exclaimed, “He made me”!

  • Crusty Cairo!

     

     

    Steeped in tradition and blessed in bounty, Egypt’s capital city has the Gods smiling down at it with wonderful sunshine, the blue-est of blue skies, golden sandstone, a mile-wide perennial river, bountiful produce, alarmingly friendly people and a history that would even humble the Gods. With the great Sahara desert only just a stone’s throw away, the city of Cairo is embalmed with a creamy layer of dust making a sepia tone out of the urban landscape. Its warm and crusty during the day, like a piece of toast and casts a spell under the twinkling sky at night. A city of storybooks, it’s one of those places we all have a foreboding about, from the merchants of Cairo or the bazaars of Cairo, stories of the place and the people have traveled vastly across the world. And when visited Cairo does nothing short of making a warm and wonderful impression. In my head, Cairo seemed to be all about the white turbaned, long cloak wearing people, their smiles weathered and eyes twinkling. Good-natured as well, with wit to keep one entertained, the pseudo-descendents of the ancient Egyptians are well aware of their blessings and predicaments. Cautioned to dress conservatively and repeatedly warned of the unrest the country has witnessed in the last couple of years, my adventurous spirit remained quite intrigued to visiting the city of the Great Pyramids of Giza!

    Landing in Cairo, we were welcomed by the swanky new-age terminal, I never seem to complain of globalisation when I need to visit a washroom, the globalised standards of cleanliness and french-fries available everywhere are quite a blessing! Seriously sometimes I thank my stars for America! (:D) Hopping onto our ride, we began to make our way to our temporary residence along the River Nile. As a teeming metropolis, Cairo has its own share of traffic issues, the snarls though are nothing compared to Bangalore (!) but driving at a snail’s pace, getting on the 16th of October bridge, the longest flyover in Cairo gave me enough time to take in the expanse of the city and the changing buildings as we drove by. If I thought naming the flyover by the date was something, the naming of a city by a date was even more surprising. The 16th of October city, close to Cairo was established to celebrate a war that Egypt won in the past. The flyover extends from the center of the city to the Great Pyramids of Giza. Our hotel, at the end of the bridge overlooked the Nile River and it’s Gezeira Island, home to the area of Zamalek, also known as little Manhattan! Egypt, is often called the blessing of the Nile, and quite well so. The only one of it’s kind, it flows from the South to the North, another instance of what a wonderful world we live in. Watching the River flow, I thought of how incredible the world really is. As we made our way to Zamalek, the sheer modernity of Cairo is truly endearing. As the most popular area of Cairo, Zamalek is filled with eateries, patisseries, a demonstration of modern Egyptians love for the french and more-so European culture. A night by the Left-bank, doling out amazing Italian food (btw pizza is amazing to cure absolutely everything, traces of jet-lag included!), feeling the coolness of the Nile, we took in the awesome location and what our Egyptian friend Shady was briefing us about the history of Egypt. His Indian wife Rashmi, chirped in her views of coming and living in a country that is so gorgeous, a culturally a lot like India. Knowing the vastness and diversity of India, I guess we could relate to every culture in the world and find some Indianness in it all! After an evening in the little Manhattan, Zamalek is just like the island of New York, full of cars, good food and an ever-energetic vibe. However ever grateful to our wonderful hosts, we couldn’t wait to get started on raiding tombs, alarming the locals and putting on an armour of adventure!

    The very first stop in Cairo simply has to be the Pyramids, the wonderful wonder of the world, built roughly 5000 years ago, as a tomb quite evidently but how we have never been able to go figure! The drive up to Giza seems long and setting out on a cheery Sunday meant we had to dodge quite a bit of the peak hour traffic. Well-preserved and organised, the pyramids of Giza were built by the Egyptian emperor Cheops and his following royals. From what we can surmise, the pyramids were built of that shape to commemorate the shape of the Sun’s rays. The Sun was the most revered aspect of the ancient Egyptians, who prayed to the life-giving force with the greatest of gusto and pride. The Egyptian sun-God known as Amun-Ra was prayed to and feared all at once. As the sun set, it was believed that it died every single day, went through a process of judgement, rebirth and was born after 12 hours as a brand new sun. Its path and sighting was unknown, but the ancient Egyptians gathered that man too died to be reborn as bright as the sun. After death, man would take a journey where his goodness was judged through the lightness of his heart and then reborn again. The body was believed to be needed on this journey and hence they invented the process of Mummification. Before preserving the body as a Mummy, all the vital organs would be removed and preserved in jars, except for the heart. It was believed in the death journey, the heart would be weighed against the feather of Maat or truth, and if lighter the man was a good person and would be rewarded before being reborn. And as man would require his body, it was embalmed and mummified, preserved along with food, ornaments that one could use in the after-life. Though ancient Egyptians loved life, they were fearful of death and the pain after crossing over. As tombs the pyramids mimicking the shape of the sun they felt would help them appease the Gods’ on their meeting after death. Most of the architectural monuments in the world tend to be tombs or mausoleums or temples, showing how fear of the unknown can cause man to build wonders. Fear is quite a driver for achievement!

    Walking on the Giza plateau, approaching the pyramids, I was struck by their beauty. Like all beauty it’s hard to explain but to put it bluntly, the pyramids are perfect in proportion, scale and material. The guide spoke about how the pyramid was right in the centre of the landmass of the world and how great the ancient Egyptians truly were. Camels and horses are great companions to trudge from one pyramid to the other and more-so the Sphinx. Waiting for the Great one, or the pyramid of Cheops to open up after an hour long lunch and prayer session, we surveyed around the area and I obliged a couple of young Egyptian girls to a couple of pictures. Them in their cute wraps and easy smiles and me with my touristy shades and pearl tales! Entering the Pyramids though needs a brave heart! Knowing the pyramid’s section and plan by-heart, thanks to the lessons in the history of architecture, I walked through the tiny claustrophobic passageway with much ease. The passageway opens out to a room, which once was a tomb of the King Cheops. With no ventilation for light or air, I was surprised how the coffin and the goods would have made their way into the tomb. The huge size of stone is evident with all it’s joinery details along the passageway. Climbing over the pyramids I wondered at the ingenuity of the builders of that time. A truly monumental achievement, that truly deserved to be called a wonder of the world. No one has yet been able to scrutinise as to how the ancient Egyptians did it. Feeling the coupled effect of the bright sun and the cool breeze on my cheeks, I felt truly happy to take in the wonderfully feel-good feeling rendered by this piece of architecture. That feeling is a true measure of something well-done. Looking up at the pyramids I deduced how the true purpose of life is probably to simply enjoy, to feel good, a leisurely approach to hard work. Like my favorite author Donna Tartt says, if you’re not enjoying something, you’re probably doing it too fast. To capture and hold on to that feeling of goodness, is probably the only calling of life. Like the feel-good feeling of writing this post, or building a wall, or the cooling waters of the pool, or simply doing nothing. As a connoisseur of life to enjoy its various lengths and widths. As I took an elective in college called art-appreciation, maybe my calling is life-appreciation(!) to truly life in appreciation and enjoy things, as against making them. What would be more thrilling? To enjoy experiencing the pyramids or to build them? We do not know the names of the builders, just as we do not know those who experience it, as obscure entities they all fade away in time. Do we then seek to create or enjoy? Beautiful places, I tell you, tell you things and that’s why they say travel helps you find yourself! Finding my life’s purpose as that of being an appreciator, a calling of enjoyment and a life of leisure, I skipped happily down the huge blocks of stones of the pyramids and smiled at the mighty Amun-Ra who may have just helped me find myself! When you do throw yourself at life, living with gusto, it is by itself meditative and gratifying. Leisure in the mind is the perfect recipe for a breezy life.

    With such happy thoughts, I met up with my dear husband, lost in his own thoughts at the base of the pyramids, motioned me to hurry up for we have a lot of world to still see! If the pyramids were starring the Egyptian museum was startling!! To see all the bodies of the mummies, in temperature and humidity controlling cases, was quite creepy. What are we all, just a bag of bones, that too easily bio-degradable! The museum boasts of tomes of ancient artifacts, my favourite and everyone’s favourite one being the 11 kg golden mask of the King Tutakhamun. It was his tomb that was found by Howard Carter in the recent times in the Valley of Kings. The obelisks, the stone carvings, not not as fine as the European counterparts evoke a feeling of awe, mainly because of how advanced they were in terms of time. The Egyptian museum is a treasure trove for any history addict, but as hardly history enthusiasts we tried connecting the dots and moving on to modern times as we made our way to the Tahrir Square. The celebrated square was the centre of the Egyptian revolution in 2011. I remembered seeing it on television as hundred of Egyptian men and women called for the resignation of President Mubarak. Spotting a KFC in the square, the guide said that America funded the demonstration and all the striking people were served piping KFC chicken for free! Hearsay I tell you! America would never do such a thing!! Just as I nay-sayed all the allegations we heard the prayer calls emanating from the speaker system. As an Islamic republic, Egypt ensures that all it’s citizens follow the four pillars of Islam, calling out for prayer five times a day. Our guide politely excused himself to go pray. Stay here, dont move he said, I will be back in 7 minutes! Wow. A date with God.

    Punctuated by prayer and peppered with thoughts of revolution, the Khan-el-khalili bazaar is dotted by shops with merchants selling local and exotic goods with equal elan. The cafes and chai places in the bazaar were home to several revolutionary and path-breaking ideas that has shaped modern Egypt. Deeply immersed in the literary masterpiece titled the Cairo Trilogy, I was more than happy to go visit the El Fishawy cafe where the likes of the Nobel Prize winning Naguib Mahfouz, the author of the Cairo Trilogy would hang out with other geniuses of his time. The historical quotient of the cafe is not questionable in the least. Furnished with antique mirrors and gloriously quaint furniture, the cafe cooled by the narrow streets of the bazaar makes for delicious strawberry juice apart from the predictable Egyptian chai, Turkish coffee and Hookah! As a largely prudent dame, I stuck with the divine strawberry juice watching my companions choke up their lungs or up the caffeine quotient. Charged for some more shopping, the bazaar enthralls the random visitor to wares of copper and alabaster lamps, mosaic lamps, fine silver jewelry, the attar fragrances, named after Cleopatra, the Valley of Kings or other historical contexts. A wide variety of veils, some highly fashionable while others largely forgettable dot the alleys of the bazaar. The Egyptian bread, baked in gas or coal ovens are typically ballooned dough eaten with dollops of hummus, babaghanoush, cheese, olives and the other fritters that only emphasize on the freshness of fruits and vegetables available in Cairo. Though not a great fan of salads, the crunchy veggies packed in color won me over in no time. To experience the perfect cold mezze, Sequoia is a wonderful stop. Introduced to the perfect mezze and Umm Ali, by Mostafa, a hearty Egyptian and a wonderful friend of  the Devar!

    Mostafa displayed the famous Egyptian hospitality as he regaled us with stories and ordered practically everything on the menu. One of the best dinners ever, and Sequoia on the Left bank of the Nile in Zamalek played the perfect setting. A must do for anyone visiting Cairo. Just as is a quick walk through the Mariott hotel and the Cairo Dinner Cruise. While the Mariott hotel stuns the average visitor with gorgeous Egyptian architecture fraught with intricate detailing, it also does go the extra mile with it’s hot chocolate cart serving up the delicious beverage to suit any fancy be it flavored with cinnamon, hazelnut or chilli! All with accompaniments of choco-chip, brownie, fudge sauce and what not. The Dinner cruise on the other hand is a black tie-event. As we walked up the slip way, we made acquaintance with a friendly face. A petite girl of similar age and a sophisticated smile struck a conversation. After exchanging notes of how similar we looked like we came for the same part of the world, specifically Andhra Pradesh in India and excitement over the wonderful city, she introduced herself as a staff at the Indian Embassy. Though bowled by her smart aura, I was awed when she parted by handing out her card, imploring to stay it touch. Third Secretary to the Ambassador of India it read, one of India’s premier Foreign Service Officers, I was so glad that our country was being represented by such able and striking officers. A beauty with brains, just like India! The wonderful evening spent in collaboration with gorgeous weather and a sparkling city, the river dinner cruise, Maxim is a must do for the visitors. Though crusty and rusty by day the city of Cairo comes alive in the night with sparkly lights and a cool reflective river. Could not imagine the River once caused worry with it’s flooding nature, long before the Aswan Dam was built.

    Though one spends much time at one of the World’s wondrous site, the magnificent Pyramids, the famous Khan-el-khalili bazaar and the glitzy Riverside, there is one other side to Cairo that may be lesser known but is equally, if not more charming – old Cairo  as it’s called. The older part of the city is inundated with mosques, churches and demonstrates what an important part religion played in shaping the city at the confluence of Islam and Christianity. The Abrahamic religions comprising majorly of Christianity, Islam and Judaism has its influence in Cairo. Whether it is the Fortress of Babylon, the Hanging Church, the Coptic Museum, the Jewish Synagogue of Ben Ezra or the Mohamad Ali mosque made of stunning alabaster. Legend has it that Jesus along with Mary took refuge in the Fortress of Babylon, during the Roman persecution. While the Mohamad Ali mosque, designed by architect Yousif Boushnaq from Turkey was commissioned by the then great ruler of Egypt, Mohammad Ali. One story goes that his Mom concocted the very delicious milk-based pudding now fondly referred to as Umm Ali, literally translating to the mother-of-Ali. The city is a minor enchantment of what Egypt has to offer and as it stuns it enthralls with a glorious past. The present seems highly disillusioned, with war and strife running through the city. The years of struggle have taken their toll on the city with squatter-settlements and un-sanctioned buildings coming up haphazardly contributing to massive urban sprawl. The people build, plastering and painting only the interiors, leaving unfinished brick walls on the outside, supposing to complete them when they make enough money. The roof-tops are filled with junk household items visible to the passer-bys from the multitude of highways. This is the other side of Cairo very stark and different from the glitzy new Giza and Modern Cairo. What they lack in economy they make up in food and spirit. The Eqyptians walk with elan, display abundant affection and share a joke or two with ever-twinkling eyes. The women dress in fabulous head-dresses and though extremely modest allow a display of gorgeous hand accessories and heavily made-up eyes that are mostly light.

    As I leave you all with an ultra-long post that I could not bring myself to compress, besides having a lot to say, clearly being super-overwhelmed, about the city that boasts of a rock solid past on one side and a crumbling present on the other. Here’s a melody that continued to play on my head all through by days in the gift of the Nile!

    Walk like an egyptian!